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Fallon Fox never wanted to talk about being transsexual. The professional MMA fighter who's been tearing through opponents has been a woman to her training partners and opponents for the last five years. Now, due to circumstances beyond her control, she's being forced out of the closet well before she was ready.
"For years I've known at some point it's very likely the shoe would drop," Fox told Outsports in a phone interview Tuesday. "Maybe someone would guess that I'm trans. Maybe they would know me from my life before I transitioned. I've been waiting for that phone call to happen. And Saturday night, it happened."
Fox was at dinner celebrating a victory when a call came through. It was from a reporter who asked probing questions that clearly lead to one conclusion: The reporter knew Fox's secret past. Within 48 hours she got a call from a former trainer who had been interviewed by the same reporter with the same questions. The secret of Fallon Fox was about to come out.
"These past six years, people have seen me as a woman, not a transsexual," she said. "People in the gym, people I train with, it's been great, it's been awesome. I'm just a woman to them. I don't want that to go away. It's unfortunate that it has to."
Born in the wrong body
Ten years ago, Fox told her parents that she felt like she was born in the wrong body. Her mother rejected the news. Her father told her she was actually a confused gay man. Fox insisted that she wasn't gay, and that she was mostly attracted to other women. Her father was unrelenting and put her in gay-conversion therapy. There she was treated by a gay-conversion therapist who tried to convince Fox that she was a gay man so that he could turn her into a straight man.
When the therapy sessions finally ended, Fox decided to start her sexual transition. She soon began hormone therapy that she has now been on for 10 years. Six years ago, she had gender reassignment surgery.
"For the longest time, my mother didn't want anything to do with me," Fox said. "I wasn't even allowed to come into her house or show up at her door. But as the years went on, they both started coming around a little bit."
That's taken a turn for the worse recently. Fox has not spoken to either of her parents in almost two years.
Shortly after her surgery, Fox took up MMA fighting. In the coming weeks and months she found a love for it. Over the last five years, it has become the reason she gets up in the morning. It is her life's passion.
"I get to train and hit on the bag and let some aggression out," Fox said. "And I love being out in front of the crowd when I compete. I love displaying my skill. All the hours of hard work and training, and you go out there and get to display what you've learned. At least when you lose, you know you tried your best. That fight experience is intoxicating." She has also become a dominant fighter. In her last match, this past Saturday just hours before the phone call that precipitated her coming out, Fox used a knee to the face to drop her opponent, Ericka Newsome, in 39 seconds.
Fox said she was confident going into that fight because of her preparation. She had watched tape on Newsome and saw she had a weakness: "Erica throws wild punches and doesn't defend her face." Very early in the match, Fox saw what she had seen on the tape, and she took the opening. With a smart, technical move she delivered a knee to Newsome's face and ended the match. It's not uncommon for elite-level female fighters to display this kind of dominance early in their professional careers. Fox points to Olympic judo bronze medalist Ronda Rousey, who is also undefeated in her professional matches and whom UFC's Dana White called a "rock star." Most of her wins have come in under two minutes. Megumi Fuji was 22-0 and won most of her matches in under two minutes until later in her career.
Due to her hard work and focus, Fox considers herself a top-tier fighter who is just now moving through the ranks of the MMA circuit.
"This [dominance] is pretty common for someone who's an elite fighter with great technique," Fox said. "I've been training for this for five years. It's been all that's been on my mind. Constantly training. And it's just now starting to pay off."
Moving forward as an openly trans fighter
Fox knows some fans, and even some fighters, will try to dismiss her success because she was born in a male body.
"With a little more education," she said, "they might be able to see that they're wrong. I'm not the only one who's been dominant."
She argues that after 10 years of hormone therapy, and six years after gender-reassignment surgery, any advantage she had from being born in a male body have been erased. She is even recognized by the State of Illinois as female on her driver license.
"I'm technically, legally, physically and mentally female," she said. "Everything about me is female"
She has solid ground to stand on. Given her physical transition, she would be eligible to compete in the Olympic Games as she meets the International Olympic Committees' standards for trans athletes. If she were so inclined, she would be eligible to compete on the LPGA Tour and the WTA.
Still,
SI.com is reporting that there is confusion around Fox's fighting license. She is currently scheduled for her next bout on April 20.
Her manager, Brett Atchley, has worked with Fox for just four months. He knew early on that Fox was transgender, and he said it doesn't matter to him one bit.
"She's gone through this process and it's been more of a challenge, and it's taken more of a commitment, than anyone she steps into the cage with," Atchley said. "It doesn't matter to me. What matters to me is that she was strong enough and trusted me enough to tell me."
Fox has fears about the repercussions of coming out. For one, she worries that her life as simply a woman is going to transition. We hear this from athletes who fear coming ou
Ronda Rousey was the one who had her hand raised late on Saturday night, as she always does, but if referee John McCarthy had sufficient hand-raising capacity he also might have raised the hands of Liz Carmouche, of Dana White and his UFC team, of all the women who compete at the top level of mixed martial arts, even of the sport itself.
Everybody wins.
Well, everybody except the online Neanderthals -- a dwindling number, yet full-voiced -- who shockingly and shamefully continued spewing hate on the women's game even as the electricity from the main event of UFC 157 was still reverberating around the Honda Center in Anaheim, Calif., as well as in the homes and barrooms of satisfied pay-per-view customers worldwide.
What a debut for women in the UFC. What a fight, period.
Rousey's submission victory at 4:49 of the first round keeps her resume unblemished. It now shows one more notch just like all that came before -- another first-round finish, another armbar. But this was different. The women's bantamweight champion (7-0), who had vanquished five of her six previous opponents within the first minute, had a fight on her hands this time.
Since Ronda's fights are measured in seconds, let's recap according to ticks of the clock: It took six seconds for Rousey to land her first punch, a left jab against a backpedaling Carmouche, and just another four seconds for the champ to get a firm clinch on her opponent against the cage. Twenty-six seconds in, Rousey got the takedown she sought and ended up in side control, a great position from which to initiate that killer armbar. Fight over?
Not quite. Carmouche (8-3) spent five years in the US Marine Corps, including three tours of duty in Iraq. She has that battle-tested mettle at her call, not to mention the fortitude it has taken her to come out as a lesbian and blaze a trail as the first openly gay fighter in the UFC. She had plenty of fight left.
Within 15 seconds, Liz had squirmed out from under Rousey and positioned herself behind the champ. When Ronda stood up, Carmouche went with her, attached to her back, arms wrapping around her face, groping for a choke. The fight was not yet a minute old, and as expected, someone was in trouble. But it wasn't the underdog challenger.
As Rousey tried to dislodge her and the crowd roared, Carmouche cranked the champ's neck to one side, waiting for an opening that might allow her to sink in a choke. Liz was doing just fine with the neck crank, actually, as Ronda's face reddened from the strain. The moment was reminiscent of when a fighter no less indomitable, Jon Jones, was caught in a Vitor Belfort armbar early in their fight -- except on that September night in Toronto, the champ quickly escaped and it wasn't until afterward that we learned he had damaged his arm. This time the possibility of a shocking upset lingered in the air for a good 30 seconds, which was the time it took Rousey to finally shake Carmouche off her back.
At that point, Rousey took a step back and a deep breath as Carmouche lay on the mat, inviting her to engage. Ronda obliged, and with just under three minutes to go in the round she once again ended up on top of the challenger, in side control. She landed a succession of short punches to the face, evaded some clever attempts at a reversal, and finally gained armbar position with just under a minute left. Carmouche kept her arms locked for as long as she could, hoping to make it to the horn, but when Ronda pried the right arm free and stretched it out, Liz tapped with 11 seconds to go.
"It was a great fight," Carmouche said afterward in the cage, to the cheers of a crowd that mostly had come to see her opponent, no doubt, but walked out of the building looking forward to seeing her again, too. "I thought I had it. And, you know, like everything, you make a mistake and it turns around."
Rousey, as it turned out, had more than a neck crank on her mind during the close call. "Trying to think about my bra falling down and her on my back at the same time," said the champ, referring to a near wardrobe malfunction. "So next time, bigger bra."
Now, that's a brand new fighter concern for the previously all-male UFC.
Speaking of which, it was a good thing the women were around to provide some main event thrills. Months ago, there was grumbling when the fight card was announced and a light heavyweight fight between former champ Lyoto Machida and Dan Henderson, a multi-division champ from Pride and Strikeforce, was slotted in the co-main, beneath Rousey and Carmouche.
As it turned out, Machida's uneventful split-decision victory was better off as a three-rounder. Ten more minutes of that circle dance would have put the whole building asleep.
Lyoto played his usual matador role and Hendo tried a few bull rushes, but the dagger never came out and there definitely was no "ole!" from the crowd. The fans saw more idle staredown than at the weigh-ins, and they let the fighters know about it. Their boos drowned out much of Machida's post-fight interview, although he could be heard apologizing: "Sorry if the fight was not good for you, but thank you for coming, everybody. Next time ..."
As he trailed off, you had to wonder: Next time, what? Next time, he'll not sit back waiting for something to happen? And how will that next time take shape? The victor was promised a shot at the winner of April's Jon Jones-Chael Sonnen title fight, but you never know. Dana White always says he likes to give fans the fights they want to see. And there's surely no groundswell of anticipation for Machida's next move.
The same cannot be said for the women who entered the cage a few minutes later. Rousey won the fight. Carmouche won respect. The UFC and women's MMA won fan approval. It was a big night all around.
Especially for Rousey. We saw her face down adversity for the first time inside the cage. We saw her once again finish a fight. And that's